Barry Mertz Obituary

Barry was a very kind and funny man. My daughter Maddie and I were neighbors with the Mertz’s a few years back. Barry made us feel welcome and was always showing off his beautiful dogs to us, something we both shared (we both had 5 at the time). His stories were infectious and I always enjoyed talking to him. Even when we moved, he always made it a point to wish Maddie a Happy Birthday each year. My deepest condolences go out to Terri and the girls. He will be missed!

Terri I’m so sorry for your loss. Wrap your memories in your heart

Sorry to find out my childhood friend has passed. Barry lived a few houses from me on Graeser Road. We and several other neighborhood boys were always hanging out togetheroh the stories to tell! RIP bro.

I worked with Barry for several years at CCPD. He always knew how to lift my spirits and make me laugh..it just came natural to him. He will be missed by so many..may his beautiful soul rest in peace.

Terry and family, I’m so sorry to hear this news. Barry was the best! Seeing him at church was always a highlight! He would ask about Anna and was so happy to talk about you and the kids, well and the dogs! He came over to me and gave me reassurances when the tragic incident happened at the other Catholic store. He gave me some insight and made me feel way better about what was going on. He was always looking out for others. Sending you hugs my friend! Hope to see you at Holy Spirit.

Barry was a detective when I first started police work at CCPD. He would always answer a question from the rookie cop or step in to help when asked. He never made you feel inferior and had a huge heart. Barry smiled a lot, told jokes, provided nicknames, and was rarely ever speechless. Those were just some of the qualities that made him special to so many people. He started the criminal exchange meetings at work, which brought detectives together from all over the area to share intelligence and criminal information, likely helping to solve thousands of cases over the years. Barry was one of a kind and will never be replaced. God bless you all.

Terry and family I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Barry. He was a great man and he was there to help me with my girls when I thought my exhusband took my children to Florida. He told so many funny stories while we all worked at CCPD. May god bless you all,

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Barry was the first officer I met when I started at CCPD. We would go on to be on the same watch for years and later together in the detective bureau. His humor kept us all loose, with his imitations and his nicknames for coworkers (Frestrunk brothers, Uncle Sid, "the Peach"). He was a good detective, meticulous in keeping records and he kept a running log of all past and present employees of the city of CC (one that I bet the City doesn't even have!). When we played together on the softball team he was fearless. Taking balls off the chest and diving for everything. His knowledge of John Wayne was legendary. Whatever he did he usually did it with passion. 10-42 buddy! Hope to see you on the other side one day!

Knew Barry since he was just a kid getting in the way of his brother. He was always the same with a comment about everything and eveyone. What a hoot, RIP

I first met Barry when we worked at the City of Creve Coeur. He was well known for his big personality and a sense of humor, but he was also had a caring side. When I was pregnant with Ryan (21 years ago), he helped me recover money from a bad contractor then he lectured him about the stress he put on a pregnant woman. My best memory is when we ran into each other at Schnucks, and he said you were looking for a church. I invited you both to try St. John Bosco, and I watched you form a great relationship with Father Welsch, the best priest ever. Sean and I were incredibly proud to serve as your sponsors, and I loved seeing you guys at Mass. He was so proud of his kids and shared silly stories about them. I hope to see you at Holy Spirit, Terry, and hear about the kids and dogs.

Wayne, we were friends for many years, as coworkers, as well as in our retirement years. We shared many good times together, with many memories.
You will be missed my friend, but you are in a better place now with God.
See you at the next roll call buddy.

Tommy and I shared a lot of fun memories with Barry and Terry during our daughter’s Erin and Katie’s soccer days. Barry was a great guy to be around and he will be deeply missed. I’m so sorry for your loss Terry, Katie, and Sarah. Prayers for you all during this very difficult time. God bless.

Barry, Your loyal friendship goes back to grade school with my brother and me. You’d come to our house and visit our family. So glad to be reconnected after many decades! I loved your heartfelt and positive posts. My brother “Johnny” and I will certainly miss you.

Always had a time to talk to you. Enjoyed our time at Creve Coeur.

My condolences to Barry’s family. He was a very lovely soul and such a wonderful person to be around. PVS was lucky to have him around. We’ll miss you, Barry

My deepest condolences to Barry’s family and friends. He was a great guy with an infectious positive attitude and an incredible sense of humor. His impressions were legendary! Grateful to have crossed paths in this lifetime.

It was a pleasure to work at CCPD with Barry. I loved his stories and the nicknames he gave everyone. We shared a love of John Wayne too. Terry you and the girls are in my heart and prayers. ❤

Sorry to hear about Barry you were a awesome funny man miss you Tracey Gabelmann- Lisa Hahns sister

Our heart breaks; Barry was the "Rock" of PVS varsity soccer. Your support of the Pattonville community will be missed. Our family loved you! Sending prayers & hugs to your family. The Fink Family

My deepest sympathy for your loss. Barry and I were good friends at West Ladue Junior High. We both lived off of Graeser Rd- and often walked home from school together. He also became close with my parents and would come by to hang out & play Ping Pong with my dad Rollie. I remember his great humor and kindness.
Your stories demonstrate what a great husband and father he was. May his memory be a blessing.
Gayle (Hitt) Messina

I knew Barry from my days at Monsanto Company. We interacted often with the Creve Coeur Police. This breaks my heart. Barry was such a sweet man! I always enjoyed his company. His brother, Dennis, was in my class at Ladue. Many prayers for the Mertz family.

Great guy and better cop.
Rest in peace my friend until we meet again.

Terry, Butch & Family. We are very sorry to learn of Barry’s passing. We will always be grateful to Barry & you, Terry, for all you both did for the girls soccer program our daughter Gina participated in. Please know that the Mertz family are in out prayers. Joe & Mary Parisi & Gina Crouthers.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief!
Terry, we will be thinking about you and your kids.
John and Melinda Fuller

Barry was a lifelong friend and fellow policeman. Also, a great participant in the Creve Coeur softball team over the years. Shared a lot of beers together... rip Barry

I am so sad to hear about Barry’s passing. I hope that he didn’t suffer and is at peace. This world is not the same without him in it. He was my dear friend in middle school and I was a huge fan of his kindness, friendship and humor.

Sincerely Cathy Brown Goldsticker