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Josephine Avallone Obituary

Josephine L. Avallone “Our Loving Mother”



Josephine L. Avallone, 99, of Carthage, New York, passed away on Monday, January 13,2025 at Samaritan Medical Center in Watertown.


Josephine was born July 24,1925 in Carthage, the daughter of Bernardino and Anna Grieco Remedianni.
At a young age her family moved to New York City. She attended a trade school to learn sewing and went to work in the production of books and magazines to include a school supply catalog, Mademoiselle and Charm.


Frank, her future husband and Josephine were both born on Adelaide Street, in Carthage and their parents, Maria and Antonio Avallone and Bernardino and Anna were each attendants at the others wedding. They met on a family visit to New York City while Frank was on furlough from the Navy. They were married in the Church of The Nativity, in the Bronx, October 18, 1947.The newly married couple returned to Carthage and resided on Adelaide Street where she was a homemaker. Once the house was full of children, over a twelve-year period, her devotion to motherhood was unparalleled.  In later years her social circle expanded to young and old and then she became known as Grandma and Grammy. Names she cherished.



Josephine was a communicant of St. James Church, a former member of the Ave Maria Circle and the Carthage Co-Ed Bowling League, an avid NY Yankees fan and she loved hearing anything Frank Sinatra.


She is survived by her five children, Frank (Paula) residing in Ohio, Anthony (Ann) in Louisiana, Janet (Jim) Callahan of Williamsville, Nancy (Dennis) Goodnight of Missouri and Paul of Watertown, 9 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.


Josephine is predeceased by her husband Frank, a son Steven, a grandson James, her parents, two sisters, Helen and Sadie, and four brothers, James, John, Albert and Frank.


The family would like to express heartfelt appreciation for the wonderful home health care that Josephine received from a loving “Band of Angels” while she completed her last year of life on Adelaide Street.
Also to the professional staff at Jefferson County Public Health for their home care program and the staff of medical personnel and health aides at Meadowbrook Terrace Assisted Living Facility.
A huge thank you to the Samaritan Medical Center medical staff of Doctors and Nurses that oversaw her last days of life.


A Mass of Christian Burial for Josephine L. Avallone, 99, of Adelaide St. Carthage, will be held on Friday, May 2,2025 at 11:00am at St. James Catholic Church in Carthage with Rev. Joseph Genito OSA officiating. Private burial will follow the mass in St. James Cemetery, Carthage. Josephine passed away on January 13, 2025.  Funeral arrangements are with the Bezanilla-McGraw Funeral Home, Carthage. Memorial donations may be made to the Wounded Warriors or to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital. To leave a condolence, go to www.bezanillafh.com.

Published by Bezanilla-McGraw Funeral Home - Carthage on Apr. 17, 2025.

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Holly White-Armstrong

May 13, 2025

We were so lucky to grow up by being welcomed and spoiled by Josephine Avallone and many other absolutely wonderful Italian Mothers and Joey’s sister Lucille on or close to West End Ave. Any time you encountered any of the Moms you were asked how we were, how was you day and were we hungry. Of course we enjoyed the grand cooking and
marvelous treats. So lucky to have this kindness as we were growing very up. We felt safe and loved. Truly enjoy the wonderful memories that you shared.
Holly White Armstrong

Ken and Kathy Smith

May 2, 2025

She was a wonderful lady! Kathy and I would like to offer our deepest sympathy for her family. She will be missed by the so many people whose lives she touched!

Ron Deeley. Aerus-Electrolux

April 25, 2025

I want to express my condolences to the entire family for the loss of your mother. Over the years, She and I had wonderful conversations, especially, how she loved her family and how proud she was of her family. I know she will be missed! “Every Experience GOD gives, every person HE puts in Our lives, IS the perfect preparation for the future that only HE can see.”

Paul Avallone

April 23, 2025

Love you always Mon you are now with dad ant safe and hellen uncle don Uncle George and all your bother and your mom and dad

Family of Yolanda Corbine

April 22, 2025

You Josephine were also included in al the Ricco and Corbine activities over the years. Your presents will be missed by all.

JAMES ZEHR

April 22, 2025

PRAYERS SENT TO THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS. R.I.P.

April 21, 2025

Jo was a very special lady who was loved by many! No doubt she was greeted with a warm reception in heaven. Rest in peace, beautiful soul!

Ginny Humphrey

April 21, 2025

So very sorry. A friend of Frank and Paula’s

Shari Gerber

April 21, 2025

She was always a pleasure to wait on at the Sahara

Loretta Fairfield

April 21, 2025

I will miss you so much. Your love and wisdom was well received.

Joan Haver Postorino

April 21, 2025

Josephine was a wonderful woman who my mom knew from Intorcia's in the mornings. Went to school with Tony and knew Frank, Paula and daughters . May she rest in peace.

Janet Zando

April 21, 2025

Josephine's smile and warm personality was a gift to us. My mother, Marion, would buy her delicious Italian Roll at the Annual St. James Fair. Then, after my mother's passing, she decided to give me her recipe. To make sure I did it correctly, she invited me to her house to give me the recipe and share her hints about making it. When, I make it, I always remember her...and I believe she is right next to me making it. My deepest condolences to all the Avallones. Janet Zando

Katalena Grieco

February 15, 2025

We are very sorry for your loss, our deepest sympathy to you all dear family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
The Griecos ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Pennie Amann

January 31, 2025

I am so very sorry to hear of Jo's passing. I just loved her. She always had a kind word and a kinder smile. I was honored to have known her for 16 years. She brought joy to the workday when she came into the office for an appointment. She never left without a hug. She will be missed. My prayers to her loving family. May she rest in peace. I hope heaven is all that she knew it would be.

Mark Schwartz

January 21, 2025

So sorry to hear Frank and family, God Bless All

Bob Morgia

January 19, 2025

My prayers and thoughts go out to Frank and Paula and the entire family. She lived a long and beautiful life. I am so happy to have spent time with her at the club. The memories that you have will live on forever. RIP

Elaine Goodnight

January 18, 2025

I’m so proud I got to meet Josephine and I will miss her singing Happy Birthday to me and I sang Zippty Do Da to her for her Birthday and just chatting with each other now and then and so thankful her daughter Nancy marrying my son Dennis . I will miss you Jo until we meet again.

Nancy Goodnight

January 18, 2025

Mom - Forever LovedForever MissedYou were the greatest mom to all us kids and even to those who weren’t.You had a heart of pure gold that would shine in everything you did for us and for others. You will live on in my heart❤Hug and kiss Dad for me

Kenneth Youngs

January 18, 2025

Josephine would always wish us a good time when I would come up from the avenue and stop and get
you and Lenny. We would then continue on to the ball diamond or down the street across from Vinney's
and play baseball all afternoon. She was such a good mother to all of you. May she find eternal peace with God.

Scott McIntyre

January 18, 2025

To Frank and Paula, and the Avallone family,

Very sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Scott McIntyre

Michael & Valerie Bigness

January 18, 2025

Frank & Paula and family please except our condolences and prayers. So sorry to hear of your Mother passing. Heaven has gained another Angel.May she rest in Peace. Hold tight to all of your wonderful memories of her.

BARBARA HARWOOD

January 17, 2025

So sorry about your mom. Knew her thru Paula and Frank's family when living on Harrison St. This was so long ago! What fun we had at her house in Carthage. Hope family is doing well. Love to all!
Barbara Layton Harwood

Tom Ellis

January 17, 2025

I will forever think of you when I play New York New York, The way you look tonight”, you were a beautiful lady inside and out. I loved your stories and you had the wit and style that just put smiles on so many hearts. Rest in peace sweet lady. Thinking of Frank,Paula Janet,Jim and the rest of Frank and Josephine’s wonderful Avallone family. Life’s a dance and “It’s all about the music”

Kathleen Huggins Hurley

January 17, 2025

My deepest sympathies to all of the Avallone family.

James Rogers

January 17, 2025

Sending my dearest condolences to the Avallone family at this difficult time.

Danielle Nier

January 17, 2025

It was an honor to have cared for Josephine. What an amazing lady who truly LOVED her family. She loved everyone and was such a kind lady. She will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Prayers are continued daily..... Go Rest High Josephine

Family Medicine of Carthage PC

January 17, 2025

Dr. Jocelyn Beane and the Staff of Family Medicine of Carthage would like to express our deepest sympathies to the family for the loss of such a beautiful soul. Jo, you will be greatly missed, you emanated such a zest for life and lit up the room with simply your presence. We thank you for always having a kind word to say to us all. We are saddened by your loss but comforted to know that you are no longer suffering and are reunited with Franky.
Godspeed

Tina David vincent Renzi

January 17, 2025

So very sorry to hear about Jo’s passing. She is at peace now with Frank. I can remember her and Frank playing tripoloy with my parents many years ago. She was a caring and warm person. God bless you

JAMES ZEHR

January 17, 2025

PRAYERS SENT TO THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS. R.I.P.

Becky Hoy

January 17, 2025

Avallone Family, Mike and I extend our deepest sympathy on the passing of your beautiful mother and aunt. We had the pleasure of getting to know her through our dear friends Scott and Jo. Although we were not related, we called her “Aunt Jo” and we delighted in visiting with her on our trips to NY. She lovingly welcomed us into her embrace as though we were her family. We will always remember her warmth, beauty, and kindness. May your memories of her warm your hearts and help comfort you forever.
With Love and Sympathy,
Mike and Becky Hoy

Ginny Humphrey

January 17, 2025

I’m so very sorry, Frank and Paula
God Bless

Charlie Frezza

January 17, 2025

To all the Avallone family, Please accept my heartfelt condolences and sympathy. I have many fond memories of your mom from the strong connection my family had of the Adelaide St neighborhood and the St. James Catholic Church. I look back now and realize what a blessing it was to grow up around such wonderful people such as your mom. The Bible verse from Matthew 25:21 comes to mind when thinking of Josephine,"Well done good and faithful servant". May God give you comfort, peace and strength at this time of grief.

Robert Fox

January 17, 2025

Frank and family. I am sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. I know you all will have cherished memories of a life well lived. From the day I met her she always remembered my name and we always shared our recollections of Frank and Paula’s wedding. May she rest in peace. Bobby Fox

Katie Camidge

January 17, 2025

You will be truly mosses my dear friend !

Katie Camidge

January 17, 2025

Oh no this sweet lady once let me in when I was walking the trail down by her home and a young man tried to mug me. I loved stopping to say Hello to her in passings . She always gave me a hug and welcomed one back. She will be trily missed . We will meet again on the other side my friend !

Garry Stevens

January 17, 2025

Frank and Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your beloved mother, Josephine. My heart goes out to you and your entire family during this difficult time.
May God, in His infinite mercy, comfort you and grant you the strength to bear this great loss. Your mother will be remembered for her kindness, faith, and love for her family.
With heartfelt sympathy and prayers,
Garry Stevens

Frank Molinari

January 17, 2025

A very nice person indeed. We remember her kind face and warm personality when gathered together at family events.

Cynthia Wright

January 16, 2025

Will miss our beloved Aunt Jo.

Dave Trembley

January 16, 2025

A life well lived and one of our hometown's special families. God has accepted an ANGEL . My deepest sympathy to the Family.

Ken Smith

January 16, 2025

Nancy and family,

We are so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was such a wonderful person. I will always remember her beautiful smile and warm personality. She always was such a joy to talk with.

With love,

Ken and Kathy Smith

Bridget Fetterly

January 16, 2025

Jo was an absolute joy! I am grateful that I was able to get to know her. She was such a vivacious and loving person! She had so many friends here on earth and I'm certain she had a beautiful reception of friends & family in heaven!

Garry Schwartz

January 16, 2025

So very sorry. GOD BLESS

Bud Cole

January 16, 2025

My deepest sympathy goes out to all the Avallone family. Jo always would light up any room when she greeted you. She was beautiful and always had a wonderful smile. Heaven gained another angel when she departed here on earth, but we will remember Her for warming our hearts.

Jim Gerace

January 16, 2025

My heart goes out to the Avallone family Frankie, Anthony , Janet, Nancy and Paul .Your mom was a special person loved by all in the neighborhood. I know she loved you all and your spouses and children as well . She will be forever missed . Our condolences thoughts and prayers will be with you all.
Love
The Gerace Family

Regina Cooper

January 16, 2025

She kept it real for so many years, enjoying each and every moment of her days past. She can rest now, and that she will, knowing what a wonderful legacy she left for you and yours to remember.

Chris Lorence

January 16, 2025

Just a wonderful, wonderful lady. Our sincerest condolences, Chris and Theresa Lorence

Theresa Lorence

January 16, 2025

Janet and Jim, So sorry to hear of Josephine’s passing. We have fond memories of spending time at her house on Adelaide Street with you, especially during the Holidays. She always invited us to gatherings and made us feel like family. Thinking of you with love and prayers. Theresa and Chris Lorence

Pamela Genito

January 16, 2025

I'm so sorry to hear of your mothers passing, Janet. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family

Teri Futia Marra

January 16, 2025

Paula and Frank,
I was sorry to read about your Mom’s passing.
Sounds like a life well lived.
God Bless

Bob Wagoner

January 16, 2025

Sorry to hear of cousin Jo’s passing. Thinking of you all.

Ernie Prievo

January 16, 2025

My sincere thoughts and prayers to Janet, Jim and all the Avallone family. She was a wonderful lady and one of the many "moms" I had growing up on Adelaide Street. Rest in Peace sweet Josephine.

Renee Wagoner

January 16, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Josephine’s passing. I haven’t seen her in years but have held her in my heart throughout those years. She was a lovely woman and whenever I saw her, there was a warm embrace. And knowing we both had a strong love for the NY Yankees, I would often think of her while watching a game. Sending my love to everyone.

Ray and Loretta Fairfield

January 16, 2025

You are special to us and will miss you very much.

Bette Smith Lathan

January 16, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Paula Avallone

January 16, 2025

To my mother-in-law (Mom). You have been a mother to me since I lost mine. You always treated me like a daughter and I so appreciated that. I hope you know always how much you were loved and know it was a great honor to be with you this last year of your life and helping you get back to health. You will truly be missed but I know you are where you wanted to be with Dad.
Love Always
Paula

Kathy Countryman

January 16, 2025

Such a beautiful and special lady! Rest in peace, Jo. My love and condolences to the Avallone family.

Becky ODett (Shirley)

January 16, 2025

So many fond memories of her and her husband during the time my mother worked for Frank at Beneficial....that crew was like family to each other and enjoyed life together...Rest in Peace, you are now with your husband who you adorable! Condolences to the family, she was a very special soul..

JoAnna Curtis

January 16, 2025

Grandma was the sweetest and made everyone feel loved and valued. She was such a joy to be around and her sweet spirit was infectious. I will miss her dearly and cling to the promise that I’ll see her again in heaven.

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