Robert James Obituary

The phone is quiet. My condolences to you Julie and all the family. I miss him very much. Bobby G.

Sorry to hear this ....was looking for a good phone # to call and say hello and found this out. always told him i wanted his old red pickup ...rest my friend you will be missed.my condolences to family. truly a great man

I just heard of BJs passing. He was such a wonderful man, like a big brother! I'm so sorry to his family of his passing. Please accept my condolences and hugs!

Bobby, B J, and I met in the mid 60s. We became roommates at Trapelo Rd., Waltham and then moved to the house on the hill in Lexington. We rented a cottage in Falmouth, Cape Cod, for many summers. Did we party? Absolutely. We had friends, family and class. I moved to California fifty years ago and B J and I kept in touch and visited regularly. Sooooo many fabulous memories overwhelms me. B J, my "brother" I will miss you, dearly. You will be in my thoughts forever. Rest in peace with the Angels. Love Proc
Gerard Proccacino, Linda Clarke
Newport Beach, CA

BJ WAS ONE OF A KIND HAVE MANY MEMORIES, STARTING WITH WHEN HE HAD A HOUSE UP ON THE HILL OFF OF RT 2 IN LEXINGTON GOD BE WITH YOU REST IN PEACH AND BEST WISHES TO JULIE LOL

From driving a truck at Smith Brothers to buying your first 10-wheeler a GMC gas job to all the equipment and toys you ended up with from peanut butter jelly sandwiches to gourmet peanut butter and jelly sandwiches love this family love this job and loved his friends I was proud to call him a friend no I call him a brother take care see you on the other side Bobby G and Mary.

BJ, You taught me how to drive a truck but most of all, you taught a farm boy the street. You were my BEST friend growing up. I will miss you my friend. So sad to hear this, Paul Rose

Rest inPeace BJ I'll always hold a special place for you in my heart since you were the man that gave me away on my wedding day. I'm thankful for your friendship and especially what you meant to my mom and dad, Robert and Beatrice Flammia whom you'll be reunited with once again as you journey home. Time and life may have distanced us but not our memories of what you meant to our family.

Mr. B had such a big heart. He treated us like family, always asking about our girls. I’ll miss seeing his truck roll in the shop, stopping by for lunch, full of stories about his past. He was such a joy to be around and he will be truly missed.

Bobby was a great friend. don't remember how many many years ago we met. We went on the motorcycles everywhere, on his boat the Fandango out of Pickering Wharf. he even flew me to the Cape for lunch one day. I'm glad I just got to see him and his son Robbie a few weeks back when they stopped by , not knowing it was the last time. Lot of great memories. Rest in peace my dear friend. Bob DeVenne.

Can't believe Bobby is gone. Somehow he always seemed larger than life. Started as a business acquaintance but became a friend through his generosity and good humor. He always spoke so proudly and lovingly of Julie. SO happy to have known him. Donna

Bobby started out a customer and quickly grew into a friendship !!! I will always remember his generosity toward all my employees and the night Julie, Bill Thompson and his wife went to dinner at Felicias for dinner!!!

I always considered you family, you treated me like another son, you shared experiences and knowledge with me and were always in my corner. I can't say enough about you and all the memories I have, on the boat, out for lunch, driving you around, sitting in the "confessional" , working for and with you. If I ever was in a spot where I was unsure of the next move I knew I could count on you to be there. Your family is my family, I wish them peace and comfort at this difficult time, RIP BJ, I love you and will always be here for your family.