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DeLores Miles Abernethy

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DeLores Miles Abernethy obituary, 1930-2025, Mesa, AZ

BORN

1930

DIED

2025

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Valley View Memorial Park & Funeral Home

4335 West 4100 South

West Valley City, Utah

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Funeral Service

Aug. 9, 2025

1:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.

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DeLores Abernethy Obituary

DeLores Miles Abernethy

Mesa, AZ - DeLores (Dee) Miles Abernethy, 95, passed away due to the complications of old age. She grew up in South Salt Lake and was a proud graduate of Granite High School. She retired as an executive secretary at Deseret Mutual and was a member of the Daughters of Utah Pioneers for nearly 60 years. Dee was the model of unconditional love, service, and humor. She loved driving fast cars, opening Christmas presents early, playing cards, drinking daily diet cokes, and laughing with friends and family. She was sassy, funny, and caring to the end.

Dee, and her husband Fred Edward Abernethy were married for 66 years. Their marriage was solemnized in the Salt Lake City Temple. She is preceded in death by husband Fred, son Mark, and daughter Marsha. She is survived by two sons, Miles (Becky) Abernethy of Gilbert, Arizona and Gene (Danalee) Abernethy of Prescott, Arizona. At the time of her death, she had 11 grandchildren, 32 great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandchild. She has been the anchor and light to our family and will be sorely missed.

She will be buried at Valley View Memorial in West Valley City. See the Valley View Memorial webpage for funeral details.(http://dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/west-valley-city-ut/delores-abernethy-12459364)

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Published by Deseret News from Jul. 29 to Jul. 30, 2025.

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Scott and Yvonne Wolf

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Wonderful lady. She and Fred were amazing people. Miss you both.

Judy & Wayne Howard

August 1, 2025

Dee was a wonderful lady-always smiling and laughing. We are thankful to have shared so many good times with she and Fred (Delightful Dee and Old Ugly). Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Wish we could be there.

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