Tammy Durham Obituary

It was every Friday that I ventured into the United Bank and Tammy was there with a big smile, happy to see me, and I was happy to see her. I have known her for 13 years, learned of her happy times, her sad times, her fun times....we talked about so much! I made her laugh, even giggle, with my quick funny stories or thoughts; I can hear her voice now, saying, "you ain't right," but I answered, "But I am safe!"
The last time I saw her was about two months ago. I complimented her on her pretty blouse, and as always, when I was leaving, she blurted across the room,"Be safe!" And, I would say, "You, too, have a blessed weekend." And now, I can only hear her voice, and see her big smile. For the last 2 months or so, when I knew she was in the hospital, I prayed day and night, and overnight when I was up, for her. It reminded me of when her sister, Netty, was very sick, and I did the same. Now, I will put Tammy's picture next to Netty's in my antique cabinet. I also had Nettie's name on my card ministry list to send an inspirational card to each month. As I was going through the list two weeks ago and saw Tammy's contact number & name for Nettie, I said to myself, "I won't need this any more...." and IMMEDIATELY God's voice said to me, "Yes you will." I didn't know why...but now I know, because God had His plan to take Tammy back home to Heaven. I am sorry this all is so long, but it helps ease the loss of my friend, and it is so hard to believe. My prayers continue for Tammy that God has a beautiful place in Heaven for her, prayers for her family, friends, co-workers, and all who mourn her. And maybe, when I went to the bank on all those Fridays and asked her how she was and she smiled and said, "I am goood," now I can ask her how she is doing and hear her voice, picture her smile, and she will tell me, "I am goood."

Tammy was always a wonderful person to deal with at the bank. Her warm smile and pleasant personality made my daily visits enjoyable- she will be missed. Condolences to her family and coworkers.

I am so sad to hear of Tammy passing. I always looked forward to seeing her at the bank over many years. My condolences and prayers to all of her family and friends.