Andrew McCoy

Andrew McCoy obituary, Smithfield, ME

Andrew McCoy

Andrew McCoy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 20, 2024.
It is with profound sorrow that we announce the passing of our beloved Andrew Stephen McCoy, age 37, on November 18, 2024. Andrew's life ended far too soon due to the taking of his own life. Although he had so much joy at times, there were other times he struggled in the depths of despair. Our family shares this with the hope of encouraging others to reach out and seek help during difficult times-please know you are not alone, and there is always someone who cares! Your life matters! Though his passing brings all who knew him deep grief, we find comfort in knowing that Andrew is now in the presence of his Savior, Jesus Christ. This assurance is not based on anything Andrew did, but on his faith alone in the redeeming work of Jesus on the cross.

Andrew was born on November 28th, 1986 in Ravenna, Ohio. He grew up surrounded by a loving family with many siblings and a large extended family. Andrew was a devoted father, loving son and brother, talented musician, and a man of deep faith who brought light and joy to those he loved.

Andrew was the proud father of two incredible children, Maxxwell and Lillianna, who brought him the most joy in his life. He loved them so much, and he took immense pride in being their dad. He was survived by his parents, Rob & Rebecca Philpot of Maine, Timothy & Lynn McCoy of Florida, and grandmother Alberta Philpot. He was the beloved brother of Jed (Shasta), Todd, Susan (Jay), Marissa, Ashley (David), Ben, Caleb, and Jacob. He was the loved uncle of 12 nieces and nephews, as well as having many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Andrew shared a deep bond with the love of his life, his children's mother, Jami McCoy. Andrew was also survived by so many amazing supportive friends who were also family to him, including his CR family.

Andrew had several jobs where he made an impact and formed lasting friendships at each of them, but his most recent were in his work at Backyard Farms, Foss Enterprises, and T-Mobile. Andrew loved watching the Cleveland Browns, something that gained him much harassment living in New England. He still showed up to each family Superbowl party to probably cheer against the Patriots! You could often find him dressed in camo, taking paintball shots from family and friends as they hid behind the trees. Friday nights would usually find him at the roller rink with the kids. Spending time with them brought him the greatest joy. He loved visiting or talking to his many siblings and friends. Andrew had a great passion for music. Whether playing guitar, singing, writing lyrics or creating music with his friends, Andrew's gift brought joy and inspiration to those around him.

Andrew's faith in God was truly central to his life. He was a man who strove to seek and find strength in the Lord, and he would encourage others to accept God's love and guidance during their times of struggle. Throughout the years, Andrew's faith in God grew and he came to love his fellow believers. He led a few friends and even family members into a relationship with Christ. His enduring hope and belief in the power of grace and redemption remain a source of comfort for those who knew him. Andrew's life was a testament to the power of love, creativity, and faith even in the midst of dark days. He will be deeply missed, but his legacy of love, music, and laughter will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

In honoring Andrew's memory, we wish to emphasize the importance of mental health awareness and suicide prevention. In this country, somebody takes their own life every 11 minutes! Nearly everyone who reads this has been affected by this epidemic. Andrew would want us to encourage anyone who is experiencing dark times to reach out to others for help. If you or someone you know is struggling, please text or call the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 988 which is available 24/7 to provide free, confidential assistance.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday the 23rd of November at Kingdom Life Church in Oakland, at 11 AM. Following the service, there will be a reception for family and friends at the New Hope Church in Solon. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to a suicide prevention organization or faith-based charity of your choice in Andrew's memory.

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Margaret

May 1, 2025

Rebecca I'm sorry for your loss maggie sibbits

Yvonne Martin

November 27, 2024

To Andrews family and friends my condolences you all are in my thoughts and prayers xoxo

Klay Beau

November 22, 2024

He was a light to many on his journey, lord willing we can be a continuation of Andrew's example
One day we shall all meet again.

Michele Dorr

November 21, 2024

Andrew when you walked in the room at CR I would always see your big smile. The love you had for the Lord and all of us at CR. You were such a a light to us all. To see you at church with your children was so beautiful. The love and connection you had with your children was beautiful. Sunday evening I was in the sanctuary being prayed for and I was told that you turned towards my direction and watched us all with your children. When I found this out I told God that I would of changed places with you and had you get the prayer over myself. You will be greatly missed my friend by ALL of us at CR. Prayers for the family. See you again one day.

Ann Densmore

November 20, 2024

May our Lord and Savior Jesus Crist bring peace and comfort to all of Andrew's family. God Bless.

Pastor Bob

November 20, 2024

So sorry for your loss but rejoice with Heavens gain. Am praying. Pastor Bob

C.J. Allen

November 20, 2024

Over the past year I had the privilege of talking to Andrew every day, some days we talked all day. He came to our CR meeting one night and we just clicked. We both love heavily distorted guitar talking theology. I was there for him through one of the hardest times of his life, to encourage him, listen to him, and remind him of who son he is! He was there for me when I had hard days and always willing to listen and offer advice. I love you bro and im gonna miss your smile and big hugs. I wish I could have done more for you but I know you are at peace and our Dad has wiped every tear away. Tell Dad I said hi and give Jesus one of those giant hugs for me! I love you man and I look forward to seeing you again. You will never be forgotten brother.

Tim McCoy

November 20, 2024

Andrew was a daring child. He'd do things like drag the trampoline across the yard next to our carport, climb to the carport roof and then jump off onto the trampoline. I have great memories of him and his sisters visiting in Ohio to celebrate his upcoming High School graduation. Our fun at the dinner table as well as our visit to The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame will never be forgotten. I was surprised and pleased that he invited me and my wife to rent a cabin next to his so we could spend more time together after his wedding. Other highlighted memories included his visit to Ohio and several to Tennessee to visit, explore, and to go boating. I´ll never forget the smiles and laughter as he and his family took turns driving the boat. We will miss his visits, frequent phone calls, and the sound of his voice and laughter.

Angela Bernier

November 20, 2024

andrew i will miss our debates and the way you looked at the world.

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