Benjamin Wayne Aikey

Benjamin Wayne Aikey obituary, Sayre, OK

Benjamin Wayne Aikey

Benjamin Aikey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 2, 2025.
Benjamin "Shorty" Aikey, born on April 12, 1972, in Austin, Texas, passed away on March 7, 2024, in Sayre, Oklahoma.

Benjamin had a deep appreciation for the outdoors and found joy in fishing and working with horses. His love for nature was matched by a gift for storytelling, captivating those around him with tales that brought laughter and warmth.

He is survived by his wife, Rhonda Aikey; mother, Patty Aikey Belisle; brother, Seth Belisle; and son, Christopher Aikey. Benjamin also shared a special bond with his bonus family: Michelle Tippelt, Kristen Williams, and Kevin Pitts. He cherished his grandchildren-Jamie Czajkowski, Kaleb Bagby, Madison Swanson, Lance Pitts, and Wyatt Pitts-as well as his great-grandchildren, Luke Swanson and Payzley Czajkowski. His loyal dog, Dude, was a cherished companion.

Benjamin was preceded in death by his father, John Wayne Aikey; maternal grandparents Robert and Corrine Ferguson; paternal grandparents Mary and Wayne Aikey; and grandson Beau Pitts.

May Benjamin's memory bring comfort to those who knew him.

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