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Mayana McDavid
March 21, 2025
I feel lucky to have known Murphy and been his housemate, to have shared so many meals and conversations with him, and to have enjoyed dance parties on the roof of our house together. Even though it´s been many years since we´ve seen each other, I felt a profound sense of loss when hearing of his death. To all who knew and loved him, I send my deepest condolences.

Linzi w
March 20, 2025
Dearest Murphy, I can´t believe you´re gone. There are no words to describe the hole in the world left by your absence, you were truly one of a kind. I´ll think of you with every spread on my bread. Love you always, as I´m sure everyone who ever met you does too xxx
Shekida Smith-Sandy, Derry Sandy, and Lucy Sandy
March 18, 2025
Sending our deepest condolences to Murphy´s family and friends. His memories and impact will continue to live on through each of you.
R
February 26, 2025
I met Murphy when I was 14. I´ve looked up to him for a long time-for his spirit, his work, and most importantly, for his style. While we went long gaps without seeing each other, I have many fond memories: a hilarious stand up comedy set, a ska dance party, the several times I´ve run into him somewhere hundreds of miles from North Carolina, and so forth. He´ll be missed dearly. Here´s to Murphy, and all of his loved ones. <3
b a
February 16, 2025
Murphy was like a precocious younger sibling. He would always show up at just the right time to remind me that growing up is for squares and being serious about something doesn´t equal taking yourself seriously about that thing at all times. He was both friend and family to so many, all over the world. Rest easy.
E
February 13, 2025
Murphy stayed at my apartment anytime he came to town and he often came without warning and in great spirits. This welcome surprise always brightened whatever weekend he was in for and I still do a double take whenever I walk outside my door in case his van suddenly appears. We all were lucky to experience the way he chose to live his life and its a testament to that luck that there´s so much to remember fondly now that he is gone.

M
February 13, 2025
it was a joy to share the earth with Murphy, who brought spirit and adventure to all aspects of existence. my life is brighter and better for the brief windows of time we spent together, for the moments of significance when I looked up, and suddenly, he was there with me. his presence persists. Murphy is remembered, missed, celebrated across the world. all my love to the others who loved him.
M
February 13, 2025
it was a joy to share the earth with Murphy, who brought spirit and adventure to all aspects of existence. my life is better and brighter for the brief windows of time we spent together, for some moments of significance when I looked up and suddenly, he was there with me. his presence persists. Murphy is remembered, missed, celebrated across the world.
Lili
February 13, 2025
Murphy was so amazing and helped plan one of the coolest DIY haunted houses I've ever been to. His energy will be so missed.
Maurine
February 13, 2025
I am so privileged to have had Murphy in my life for the past 18 years. He was such generous friend. He was an example of bravery and kindness in the face of an often unkind world.
I will cherish many memories of my too short time being his friend and will share one here: We were out in downtown DC when we heard some ska being played at a distance. Murphy had us detour to go find the musicians, who were playing to a corporate event with very little audience excitement. Murphy brought the excitement (and obviously dancing) and probably made the night of these musicians and party goers. He, this will not shock anyone, also spent about 30 minutes talking about obscure ska and reggae with these performers.
Tariq K
February 13, 2025
I first met Murphy more than 20 years ago and have many fond memories of him over the years since. I´ll miss him. My condolences to everyone who cared about him.
Sparky
February 13, 2025
Murphy was an old and dear friend, and I will miss him terribly. He was kindhearted, passionate, brilliant, and hilarious. He would be so mad that I haven´t said anything about how punk he was yet; so he was also very very punk. In his memory may we all care as deeply, give as freely, and commit as lovingly to our friends and communities. My condolences to his family, and all who knew him.
Nathan
February 13, 2025
fists to the sky, falling backwards into the moshpit, singing every cheesy line of Strike Anywhere's To the World. A true believer.
A
February 13, 2025
You challenged me most and inspired me more. I have and will continue to think of you often and carry with me what I learned from you. And cut through this world like a knife, to its core, to its truth, like you did. Rest in power and in peace.
Bobbie F.
February 12, 2025
Murphy, you were always vibrant, always had a few plates spinning, always had plans for more. You were so creative, so focused. I'll miss your crazy projects and decisive, opinionated ramblings.
EKB
February 12, 2025
My beloved friend and comrade, I miss you so much! You are one of the most exceptional humans I have ever met. We miss you, we love and we honor you forever! My condolences
molly block
February 12, 2025
wearing a mesh shirt, cowboy hat, and low-cut jean cut-off shorts. Murphy endearingly read 17th century gothic poetry to a yard full of crusty weirdos, inspiring all of us to open our ears, our hearts, and our creativity to the vastness of connection. I will miss your eclectic reminders of exuberant life, dear Murphy.
Lesa Murphy
February 3, 2025
My condolences to Murphy´s family and friends. May you find comfort in your fond memories with him.
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