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Shirley TOOMEY Obituary

Passed away peacefully October 10, 2025, at Summerset in the Sun Care Centre. A life well-travelled. Loving and much beloved wife of Ray. Loved sister of Beverley, Allison, Barbara, Neville, Ron, Glenys and Raylene. Mother of the late Cheryl and Nana of the late Errol. Much loved mother and mother-in-law of Chris and Suzanne. Nana of David, Krystal, Michael and Krista and Great-Nana of Lance, Peyton, Harrison, Mahia, Nyxyn and Mackenzie. Shirley requested a private cremation with no service. Her family asks that you remember Shirley in your thoughts. A special thank you to the wonderful staff at Summerset, your care was appreciated by all.


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Published by Nelson Mail on Oct. 16, 2025.

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Les & Yvonne

October 19, 2025

Ray, (me old China).
Sorry to hear of Shirleys passing. Our sincere condolences to you and family.

Denis Scott

October 17, 2025

To Ray and Family ,sorry to hear of your loss

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