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Cheshire Family Funeral Home - West Swanzey

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Jul. 20, 2025

1:00 p.m.

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Phyllis Lane Obituary

Phyllis May Lane, 80, of West Swanzey, passed away peacefully while surrounded by her family on Friday, May 30, 2025. Born in Keene, NH on October 16, 1944, she was the daughter of the late Leon Alexander Jr. and Alice (Patterson) Alexander. Phyllis was a lifelong resident of Winchester and West Swanzey, and a member of the West Swanzey Drum and Bugle Corp. On July 2, 1960, she married the love of her life and shared 65 loving years together. She prided herself on being an immaculate housekeeper and always enjoyed the people she worked for. She loved her "Wednesdays with Memere" spent with LB and Cam, vacations with Howard but always looked forward to coming home, and telling the stories of her early years living on a farm to her family. She loved all animals, with her latest dog Dale who was always by her side, and a good dance because she could never turn down Bob Seger's "Old Time Rock n' Roll". She was a fierce protecter of her children and had one of the most contagious laughs you could never forget. She is survived by her loving husband Howard C. Lane; daughters Kelly Wichland and her husband Bruce, Hayley Lane-Theriault; son Howard "Opie" Lane; sisters Sandra Gauvin, Nancy Grover, Rosemary Credeur, Cindy Latoilais, Tammy Whorfe; brother Leon "Bobby" Alexander III; 4 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren; and many beloved cousins, nieces, and nephews. In addition to her parents, she is predeceased by her sister Janice Miner. A Celebration of Life for Phyllis will be held on Sunday, July 20th at Papagallos from 1-4pm. Donations in honor of Phyllis may be made to Home Healthcare, Hospice & Community Services or Monadnock Humane Society. Under the care of Cheshire Family Funeral Home, Chapel, and Crematories. www.cheshirefamilyfh.com.

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Published by My Keene Now on Jun. 12, 2025.

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Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m.

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46 South Winchester Street, West Swanzey, NH 03446

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Mary Jane

June 14, 2025

Sorry for the family. Enjoyed our Sunday night coffee.

Missy and Family

June 14, 2025

RIP Aunt Phyllis! My heart is so heavy, you are missed already! Prayers for all of those who loved her especially Uncle Howard, Kelly, Hayley and Opie. I love you guys! May God wrap His arms around you and bless you all with a peace that surpasses all understanding!!
Love,
Cousin Missy, Mark & Alaysia

Cindy Latiolais

June 12, 2025

For my sister with whom I walked miles and miles with, sharing stories and memories and the best recipes I will ever own. You know all my secrets ...don't tell Mom!! I learned all the best cleaning methods from you. We planted flowers together and cut Xmas greens and berries many winters in a row. So many memories ... I will carry you in my heart for always - smiling at your laugh that made everyone leave the table - and you never noticed - you were too busy laughing!!!! I appreciate all that you have given me - as a friend - and my loving sister. I will miss you everyday ...

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