Ronald Eugene Pair

Ronald Eugene Pair obituary, Vinita, OK

Ronald Eugene Pair

Ronald Pair Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Service - Vinita on Jul. 7, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Ronald Eugene Pair, 44-year-old resident of Afton, passed away on Saturday, July 5, 2025, at the St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa. He was born on April 3, 1981, in Ft. Hood, Texas to Eugene and Diane (Hallett) Pair. Ronald was married to Sheila Dawn (Short) Pair on June 1, 2018, in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. He worked at the Doghouse east of Bernice with his mother and wife. Ronald enjoyed playing pool and a good golf game.
He was preceded in death by his father and grandparents.
The family includes his wife Sheila of the home; his mother Diane Pair of Afton; daughter, Kayla Pair; a sister, Marilyn Hill and husband Doyle of Grove; grandchildren, Cooper, Gideon, Noah, Roman, Kaulem, Mateo, and Delilah.
Private services will be held later. Online condolences may be made at www.highsmithfh.com or on the funeral home Facebook page. Arrangements are in the care of the Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Services of Vinita. "Vinita's only locally family owned and operated funeral home."
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Ronald, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Ronald's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Ronald Pair's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Ronald Pair's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?