Susan Finch

Susan Finch obituary, Heavener, OK

Susan Finch

Susan Finch Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Dowden-Roberts Funeral Home - Heavener on Jun. 16, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Ida Sue "Susan" (Pitchford) Finch, 89, of Hutto, Texas, went to Heaven on May 30, 2025. She slipped away peacefully after a brief illness, surrounded by all of her loved ones. Born on August 14, 1935, in Ratcliff, Arkansas, Susan was the fifth of eight children of Lester and Amy Blaylock Pitchford. She was a cherished mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and aunt, and will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
In 1945, her father was hired by the Missouri Railroad Company and relocated his family to Van Buren, Arkansas. Susan graduated from Van Buren High School with the Class of 1953 and then worked as a Legal Secretary for the Batchelor & Batchelor Law Firm until her first child was born.
Susan and Jesse Charles "J.C." Finch, childhood friends through his bond with her family and the close-knit community, were always destined to spend their lives together. They married on December 18, 1954, at the First Baptist Church in Van Buren. Their passion for embracing new challenges led them across the country with J.C.'s aerospace career. With each move, Susan diligently packed up their home, resettled, and ensured their daughters adapted and thrived. An independent, adventurous spirit, Susan's strength grew and flourished as she traveled to new places.
Following their final move to St. Charles, Missouri, Susan embarked upon a career at Southwestern Bell. She retired in 1995 as a highly respected and well-loved manager. In retirement, she enjoyed reading and spending time with her husband, daughters, and grandchildren who deeply loved their 'Noni'. Later in life, Susan settled in Texas with her daughter, Brenda Finch. She treasured the frequent time spent with her grandson, Jess West, whom she considered a son, and who saw her as a second mom.
Susan's gift for listening and offering a kind word or smile put everyone at ease. Her gentle wisdom made her a trusted counselor, guiding loved ones and strangers alike with compassionate advice. Her love and warmth touched the hearts of everyone she met.
Susan is survived by her daughters Brenda S. Finch of Hutto, Texas, Ronee K. Finch of Austin, Texas, and Pamela J. Morris and husband Dan of Chesterfield, Missouri; her grandchildren and great-grandchildren Jesse M. West, David Peterson, Aimee Leach, Jenifer Svoboda, Grant Morris, Natalie Dorman, Evan Morris, Pierce Dorman, Tyler Morris, Danielle Morris, Bella Finch, Kya Peterson, Cash Finch, Layla Botello, Victoria Leach, Olivia Leach, Noelle Svoboda, Jesse J. West, and Bryce West.
Susan is also survived by her sister Helen Deffenbaugh of Poteau, Oklahoma; her brother Bill Pitchford and wife Lynne of Heavener, Oklahoma; her sisters-in-law Pat Pitchford of Bossier City, Louisiana, and Norma Pitchford of Poteau, Oklahoma; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family.
Susan is preceded in death by her parents, Amy (Blaylock) and Lester K. Pitchford, Sr., her husband of 60 years, Jesse C. Finch; her brothers Bobby Pitchford, Earl Pitchford, and L.K. Pitchford Jr.; her sisters Wanda Faye Richmond and Bexta Jean Pitchford; her brothers-in-law Carl Richmond and Edwin Deffenbaugh; her sister-in-law Patsy Pitchford, and her nephew Keith Pitchford.
Honorary Pallbearers are: Jerry Pitchford, Mike Richmond, and Gary Pitchford.
"Rest in peace, Sue. May your strong and loving spirit surround us all and be the wind beneath our wings".
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, June 21, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at the Dowden-Roberts Funeral Home Chapel in Heavener, Oklahoma with Pastor brock Hardin officiating. Cremation arrangements are under the direction of Dowden-Roberts Funeral Home in Heavener, Oklahoma.
The family will have visitation before the service from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. Luncheon will follow after the memorial service at Heavener First Baptist Church. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Susan, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Susan's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Susan Finch's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Susan Finch's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?