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Shirley Jones Elam

08/11/1947 - 07/08/2025

Shirley Jones Elam obituary, 08/11/1947-07/08/2025, Fairfax Station, VA

BORN

08/11/1947

DIED

07/08/2025

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Jul. 22, 2025

10:00 a.m. - 10:45 a.m.

Antioch Baptist Church

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Shirley Elam Obituary

Shirley Jones Elam, age 77 passed away Tuesday July 8, 2025. Beloved wife of Colonel Otis Jerome Elam (deceased); loving mother to Tonya Elam-King Springer and Jeronica Nicole Elam; cherished grandmother to Christopher Jerome Elam and Austin Curtis King.
A visitation will be held at Antioch Baptist Church, 6531 Little Ox Road, Fairfax Station, VA 22039 on Tuesday July 22, 2025 from 10 a.m. until time of service at 10:45 a.m. Interment Quantico National Cemetery, Triangle VA. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Shirley's memory may be made to the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition at [email protected]. Please view and sign the family guestbook at
www.mountcastle.net

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 15, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Shirley Elam

Jul

22

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 10:45 a.m.

Antioch Baptist Church

6531 Little Ox Road, Fairfax Station,, VA

Jul

22

Service

10:45 a.m.

Antioch Baptist Church

6531 Little Ox Road, Fairfax Station,, VA

Jul

22

Service

1:30 p.m.

Quantico National Cemetery

18424 Joplin Rd, VA

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